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Here are TWO BIG TIPS when ministering to disruptive children of divorce

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Children of divorce can be disruptive, and many times, the adult standing in front of them doesn’t know what to do. Here are two really easy techniques to use. Tip #1 Don’t ask the child any question whose answer you already know. It tends to take away the dignity of the child. More than likely, the child knows you know the answer, so Read more…

Posted: April 24th, 2017 ˑ No Comments
Filled under: Accept the Challenge, Discipline, Divorce Issues, Uncategorized

The power of words: how they can help or hurt the child of divorce

Words can be powerful when they are used in the right context. Usage of kind words can motivate children. Unkind and cruel words can hurt children. I’ve seen well-intended words devastate the child of divorce. Let me explain how they might hear things that are said in front of them or things you might say to them. Think of the child of divorce who Read more…

Posted: January 20th, 2017 ˑ 2 Comments
Filled under: Accept the Challenge, Discipline, Divorce Issues, Emotions, School Issues, Single Parents

5 ways to help the child of divorce with behavior issues

Have you ever wondered if as adults we talk too much to children who are misbehaving? We explain, rationalize and think they are listening. However, most children will tune you out after a few seconds. The following tips will help you to use fewer words but still positively impact a child’s behavior. Preventative measures work best. Know in advance what you want the kids Read more…

Posted: March 14th, 2016 ˑ 2 Comments
Filled under: Brain Research, Discipline, Divorce Issues, Single Parents