DC4K » non custodial parent

Question of the week: What precautions should we take when publishing pictures of children in our ministries– especially kids of divorce?

39108987 - children kids happines multiethnic group cheerful concept

The other day, I was on a children’s ministry Facebook group. This is a closed group where children’s ministers discuss … children’s ministry things. The discussion was about publishing pictures of kids in different church activities on social media. As I read all of the ideas about how to obtain permission and handle things, it was clear that hardly anyone was discussing how Read more…

Posted: October 25th, 2017 ˑ 4 Comments
Filled under: Accept the Challenge, Co-parenting, Divorce Issues, Military, Research, Single Parents

How to help children stay connected to the long-distance parent

When a parent lives out of state and not close to children, it can be a real challenge to keep the relationship alive. However, there are several things you can do to help the long-distance parent stay connected. If the long-distance parent is in your church, offer the following suggestions. The main thing is to create a relationship with the child. It takes Read more…

Posted: August 16th, 2017 ˑ No Comments
Filled under: Accept the Challenge, Divorce Issues, Holidays, Summer, Visitation

When kids travel to visit their non-custodial parent: The disconnect

The other day, I took a walk on the beach in the early morning and happened upon a dad and son. The little boy, who appeared to be about four, was frolicking in the waves and splashing water everywhere. As I approached the scene, I could tell what was going on. I’d seen it so many times before. It was summer visitation between Read more…

Posted: June 26th, 2017 ˑ No Comments
Filled under: Accept the Challenge, Divorce Issues, Summer, Visitation

Should single parents quiz their kids about life at the other parent’s home?

I caution single parents to be careful about questioning what goes on in the other home. Kids of divorce can very quickly discern they have the “power” and will use it as a game. They may delight in watching you squirm as they tattle on the other parent. They will do the same at the other home. If you have allowed this game to get started, Read more…

Posted: October 10th, 2016 ˑ 2 Comments
Filled under: Co-parenting, Divorce Issues, Question of the week, Single Parents