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Question of the Week: When a child of divorce has behavior problems, should I call the parents?

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I get asked this question a lot. Usually, it is from a children’s minister or the person overseeing a church event, such as Vacation Bible School. I know immediately if this person has an understanding of children of divorce by whether he does or does not put the “s” on the end of parents. Rarely are children of divorce brought to church by Read more…

Posted: October 2nd, 2017 ˑ No Comments
Filled under: Discipline, Divorce Issues, Question of the week, Single Parents, Step and blended families

Draw your family + a child of divorce = paper ripped to shreds

A kindergarten child was asked to draw a picture of his family. The child started the picture and then ripped it to shreds. The picture above is what was left of the child’s original drawing. An assistant in the room thought the child was being disrespectful and out of control. She was ready to punish the child. When ministering to the children of divorce Read more…

Posted: March 1st, 2017 ˑ 2 Comments
Filled under: Brain Research, Conferences, Discipline, Divorce Issues, School Issues, Single Parents, Uncategorized

5 ways to help the child of divorce with behavior issues

Have you ever wondered if as adults we talk too much to children who are misbehaving? We explain, rationalize and think they are listening. However, most children will tune you out after a few seconds. The following tips will help you to use fewer words but still positively impact a child’s behavior. Preventative measures work best. Know in advance what you want the kids Read more…

Posted: March 14th, 2016 ˑ 2 Comments
Filled under: Brain Research, Discipline, Divorce Issues, Single Parents