Question of the week: How do I help a stepdad who has gotten close to his stepsons and now the wife wants a divorce?

“He has been the only dad these kids have known. He has taken care of them physically, financially, has taken them to school each day and to church every Sunday. He loves them as his own. These boys love him and they are going to be devastated when the divorce happens. The sons don’t know about the divorce. What can I say to  Read more…